Podbit · Modern Wisdom
There will always be wildfires, rivals, personal crises, and distractions. Waiting until conditions are perfect is not a strategy — it's a guarantee of inaction. The only people who achieve much are those who seek knowledge and act while conditions are still unfavourable.
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