Podbit · Modern Wisdom
Rupturing your Achilles during a pandemic is, paradoxically, the best time to do it — the world isn't moving forward without you, so there's no temptation to rush recovery. Chris's disciplined 1-hour daily rehab routine is the only reason he has full Achilles capacity today.
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Chris shares the full story of rupturing his Achilles tendon playing cricket in 2020 — what he describes as 'probably the single worst physical injury you can get.' The statistics alone are sobering: roughly 1 in 5,000 people experience this injury, and full recovery takes 12 months. But the detail that genuinely shocks is the speed of atrophy: waiting 13 days for surgery with no weight on his leg, his injured limb had already shrunk to two-thirds of its normal size. The mental battle during that pre-surgery limbo — not waiting to get better, but waiting for the process of getting better to even begin — was the hardest part. His salvation was a combination of books (Ryan Holiday's The Obstacle Is the Way, Ross Edgley's The Art of Resilience) and a documentary about Andy Murray's hip replacement, all recommended by friends who'd come back from serious injuries. The counterintuitive takeaway: doing this during a pandemic was actually a blessing, since there was nothing to miss while stuck on the couch.
Roughly 1 in 5,000 people rupture their Achilles tendon, requiring a full 12-month rehabilitation.
Chris waited 13 days from his Achilles rupture to receiving surgery, during which significant muscle atrophy occurred.
After his Achilles rupture, Chris's injured leg shrank to two-thirds of its normal size in less than two weeks of non-use.
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