On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Podbit · On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Riz Ahmed: How to Silence Your Inner Critic (And Build REAL Self Worth)

Explore episode Jun 10, 2026

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Breaking Free from the Alpha Male Myth

At 47:40 · chapter starts 46:44

Jay asks Riz about the shame of not sharing his health crisis — what kept it private for so long? Riz identifies the cultural archetype of the invulnerable alpha male as the culprit. He already felt like he didn't fit the mold on multiple levels; he didn't want another strike against him. Now he sees the willingness to share vulnerability as a different and more genuine form of strength — teaching yourself to walk again takes grit. He adds a corrective fact: the alpha male in a wolf pack is actually the animal that lets the young beat it up the most, the most chill and least aggressive member. The cultural idea of alpha dominance is simply wrong. He describes the moment of sharing on camera as his body immediately going 'oh God, did I say all this?' — but also feeling lighter, as if releasing an offering.

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