Podbit · The School of Greatness
At 22, a fire-dancing accident in Thailand burned 25% of Colin's body and left doctors saying he'd likely never walk normally. Eighteen months later, in his first-ever triathlon, he won the entire Chicago Triathlon outright — 4,000+ competitors — and didn't even know until a race official had been calling his name over the loudspeaker.
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Colin sets the scene: just graduated college, $10,000 from 8 summers of painting houses, a one-way ticket to New Zealand. The first stop — Fiji — is where he meets Jenna. The second stop — Thailand's Koh Tao — is where his life nearly ends. [1] — Colin O'Brady "25% of body severely burned: A fire-dancing accident in Thailand left 25% of Colin's body severely burned, predominantly his legs and feet,…" 45:26 A flaming jump rope at a fire-dancing party wraps around his legs, sprays kerosene up the length of his body, and engulfs him in flames. He jumps into the ocean; it saves his life. But 25% of his body is severely burned. There is no hospital on the island. He endures 8 surgeries in a one-room nursing station with a cat wandering the ward, while doctors tell him through a language barrier that he will probably never walk normally again. [2] — Colin O'Brady "3 months in Thai hospital: Colin spent 3 months in a Thai hospital after his burn accident before being flown back to the US, during which …" 47:20 His mother flies from Portland and becomes the heroine of the story — crying in the hallways, then walking into his room every single day with radiant positivity, forcing him to visualise a future goal. He closes his eyes and sees a triathlon finish line. Three months later, back in Portland in a wheelchair, she places a kitchen chair one step away and leaves the room. Three hours later, he takes the step. Eighteen months of daily increment follow — steps, shuffles, jogging down the street at a 30-minute mile — before he lines up at the Chicago Triathlon. [3] — Colin O'Brady "Colin's mother didn't argue with the doctors or promise miracles — she put a kitchen chair one step away from his wheelchair and left the r…" 47:46 He finishes, collects his bike, and is told over the PA system that he has been announced as the winner — first out of 4,000-plus participants, in his very first race, having had no idea he was leading.
In the deepest flow state of his final day, Colin's memories didn't flash past — they played in full, vivid, 10-minute sequences. He could feel the wind at a childhood swim race, hear the music from drives with his sister. The implications go beyond sport: this is what genuine presence can unlock in any human mind.
A fire-dancing accident in Thailand left 25% of Colin's body severely burned, predominantly his legs and feet, requiring 8 surgeries in a makeshift hospital.
Colin spent 3 months in a Thai hospital after his burn accident before being flown back to the US, during which time he had not taken a single step.
Colin's mother didn't argue with the doctors or promise miracles — she put a kitchen chair one step away from his wheelchair and left the room. Three hours later he took that step. The next day, five steps. Eighteen months later he crossed a triathlon finish line in first place. That is what goal-setting looks like at its most powerful.
Just 18 months after being told he would never walk again following severe burns in Thailand, Colin O'Brady won the Chicago Triathlon outright in his first-ever race.
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