Podbit · The School of Greatness
A Turkish woman at a triathlon suggested Vipassana — 10-day silent retreats with no reading, no writing, no eye contact. Colin's stepdad waited in the parking lot expecting him to quit within an hour. Colin stayed all 10 days, and the practice of deep self-awareness has been a foundation of his mental training ever since.
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Colin explains that his fascination with flow states began long before he could name them. As a child swimming 4 hours a day — 2 before school, 2 after — staring at a black line with no conversation, he was unwittingly training the mental stillness that would later power his expeditions. [1] — Colin O'Brady "A Turkish woman at a triathlon suggested Vipassana — 10-day silent retreats with no reading, no writing, no eye contact. Colin's stepdad wa…" 31:30 A Turkish friend's recommendation to try Vipassana meditation in 2011 formalised the practice: 10-day silent retreats, no reading, no writing, no eye contact. His stepdad literally waited in the parking lot expecting him to quit within an hour. He stayed all 10 days. Colin returns every year when possible. In Antarctica, he applied this training at scale: he deleted most media from his phone, kept only a few podcasts (including School of Greatness), a few albums, and spent 80-90% of the crossing in silence. The blank, endlessly white, sunlit landscape — no day/night cycle, no visual landmarks — was the ultimate blank canvas for exploring the mind.
On Christmas morning of his 53rd day, with 77 miles remaining, Colin O'Brady dropped into the deepest flow state of his life and simply didn't stop. Thirty-two hours of continuous movement — more than double any previous day — carried him across the finish line of the world's first solo Antarctica crossing.
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