Podbit · The Prof G Pod with Scott Galloway
Young people are deprived of the very things that would give them meaning — parenting, stable partnership — because insecurity prevents them from pursuing those things. Having a child gives you an identity, a reason to wake up, a sense of the future. Being denied that path deepens the hollowness.
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Three mid-episode sponsor reads pause the conversation. Scott Galloway delivers a personal endorsement of ZBiotics PreAlcohol, a genetically engineered probiotic drink designed to break down the gut byproduct of alcohol before rough mornings; he notes he was using it before they became an advertiser and offers 15% off with code GALLOWAY at zbiotics.com/galloway. Odoo follows, pitched as an all-in-one business management platform replacing fragmented app stacks, with a free trial at odoo.com/provg. BetterHelp closes the block with a pitch for online therapy, citing their 2026 State of Stigma report: 85% of Americans consider therapy a smart choice, 74% say society still stigmatises it, and more than three in four Americans reported symptoms of anxiety or depression in the past two weeks. The BetterHelp data point lands with particular resonance given the episode's sustained focus on youth mental health.
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