A generation of men grew up with the iPhone and had pornography in their hands at ages 10, 11, and 12. By the time they arrive at Valor Recovery in their 20s, many have been in full-blown addiction for over a decade without realizing it — it is simply part of their daily routine, indistinguishable from taking a melatonin. The trauma Steven sees in these clients isn't from a difficult childhood; it's from the porn they absorbed before their brains were finished developing.