Jen Lilley and Dr. John DiGarmo went to Congress in 2020 to push premature reunification reform. Every member they met loved the idea. Then a senior HHS official pulled them into a room, told them to leave their phones outside, and explained the reality: their bill would become 300 pages long, get Christmas-treed with things they'd never intended, and ruin the very kids they were trying to help. She walked away and never looked back.