Art and his wife are debt-free with $2.4M in assets and want to buy a $425,000 house for her aging parents and brother who live 3 hours away. George and Jade support the generosity, but flag every hidden cost: property taxes, insurance, utilities, food, and the real question of whether 80-year-olds will actually uproot and move. Sometimes a $1,000/month cash transfer is more practical than a real estate play.