Podbit · Modern Wisdom
Self-esteem isn't self-generated — it's a lagging measure of how your social environment is feeding back to you. Holding high self-esteem in the face of universal negative feedback isn't strength, it's maladaptive. The path to genuine self-esteem runs through connection, contribution, and personal growth.
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Sonja admits there are no known evidence-based interventions for self-esteem. Chris proposes the sociometer theory, which Sonja validates as solid independent psychology. [1] — Sonja Lyubomirsky "I don't know of any good interventions to increase people's self-esteem." 09:56 [2] — Chris Williamson "Self-esteem isn't self-generated — it's a lagging measure of how your social environment is feeding back to you. Holding high self-esteem i…" 10:38
After 36 years of happiness research, Sonja Lyubomirsky says she knows of no laboratory-tested, evidence-based intervention that reliably increases people's self-esteem.
A survey conducted for Sonja Lyubomirsky's book found that 70% of people said they don't feel as loved as they want to be in at least one significant relationship in their life.
Sonja Lyubomirsky identifies three domains that reliably contribute to happiness and self-esteem: connection with others, contribution to community, and personal growth.
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