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The Secret To Asking For A Pay Raise (Mika Brzezinski)

Explore episode Jul 10, 2026
Business
The Barriers Are Still Real

The Secret To Asking For A Pay Raise (Mika Brzezinski) · Jul 10, 2026 Business

Only half of American businesses prioritise women's career progression. 20% actively place low or no priority on it — rising to 30% for women of colour. 60% of women have never asked for a raise. These aren't feelings; they are the structural reality that makes confidence-building not optional but urgent.

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Where the Good Girl Comes From

At 19:35 · chapter starts 15:50

Katty asks where the impulse to undervalue oneself comes from, and Mika's answer is personal and surprisingly candid. Growing up as the youngest and only girl in a family of high achievers — her father Zbigniew Brzezinski would become National Security Adviser, her brothers were both 'literally brilliant' — Mika struggled academically, likely with an undiagnosed learning disability that Adderall might have addressed. Unable to hold her own in her father's famous dinner-table political debates, she discovered her gift was cracking jokes to defuse tension, becoming the family mediator and comic. Katty reframes this as a strength rather than a deficit, but also connects it to a wider cultural pattern: girls are socialised to please and facilitate, while boys are encouraged to compete and advocate. Both women agree this early conditioning has lifelong effects on professional and personal confidence.

Society & Culture
Where the Good Girl Comes From

The Secret To Asking For A Pay Raise (Mika Brzezinski) · Jul 10, 2026 Society & Culture

Mika grew up as the youngest and only girl in the famous Brzezinski family, surrounded by brilliant brothers and a father who staged political debates at dinner. Unable to compete intellectually, she became the tension-breaker, the comedian, the mediator — the classic good girl. She's only recently reclaimed that as a strength.

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