Podbit · Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
With no ability to taste during treatment, Achatz built a vocabulary of comparison — 'as acidic as a pickle, as sweet as a Dairy Queen cone' — to direct his top three chefs. He showed up to the restaurant every day through chemo and radiation. The cancer forced him to relinquish control and, in doing so, made him a better leader.
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For three to four years, Achatz's tongue felt perpetually sore — like a bitten tongue that wouldn't heal. Dentists attributed it to the stress of opening a restaurant and raising two young children, missing the diagnosis seven or eight times. By the time it was caught at age 32, stage IV cancer had consumed nearly three-quarters of his tongue and metastasized to both sides of his neck. Five major hospitals delivered the same verdict: remove the tongue entirely, dissect both neck sides. [1] — Grant Achatz "For three to four years, Achatz's tongue felt like he'd bitten it. Dentists blamed stress. By the time he was diagnosed with stage IV tongu…" 42:29 Faced with the prospect of never being able to taste, speak, or chew again — and unable to communicate with his staff or run his business — Achatz was at a crossroads. 'Maybe I should just die,' he recalled thinking. But the University of Chicago offered a clinical trial he could join, and the combination of chemotherapy and radiation — which radiated him from collarbone to nose and caused his throat lining to shed like a snake's skin — ultimately worked. [2] — Grant Achatz "With no ability to taste during treatment, Achatz built a vocabulary of comparison — 'as acidic as a pickle, as sweet as a Dairy Queen cone…" 46:32
Grant Achatz was diagnosed with stage IV tongue cancer at the height of his career, with nearly three-quarters of his tongue already consumed by the tumor.
Achatz's cancer was missed by dentists seven or eight times over several years because symptoms were attributed to stress from opening his restaurant and having young children.
Achatz visited five major hospitals seeking treatment options; they all recommended removing his entire tongue and dissecting both sides of his neck.
After five hospitals offered only radical surgery, the University of Chicago offered a new clinical trial that ultimately saved Achatz's tongue and his career.
Radiation therapy targeted Achatz from his collarbone to his nose, causing the skin lining of his throat and tongue to shed entirely like a snake.
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Kessler thought his grief expertise would protect him. It didn't. When his son David died unexpectedly, he found himself on the floor — and eventually realized that acceptance alone wasn't enough. That unmet need became the sixth stage: finding meaning.
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