Podbit · The School of Greatness
Every surgeon is taught never to operate on friends or family. McLaughlin has broken that rule with 10–15 friends. His logic: who cares more about getting it right? Who will fight hardest when things go sideways? The taboo, it turns out, has the argument backwards.
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Lewis asks whether skills are built through repetition or pressure. McLaughlin refines his view: pressure is problematic because it's essentially 'what will other people think' in disguise, and he now believes deliberate rehearsal in conditions that simulate the real environment is more productive. He cites Princeton's wrestling program, where coaches pump crowd noise during practice to acclimate wrestlers to competitive environments. Then Lewis raises the surgical taboo: operating on friends and family. McLaughlin has done it — roughly 10 to 15 friends — after his coach pointed out a simple moral logic: if you care most about someone and can do the operation as well as anyone, aren't you morally obligated to offer? The conventional wisdom — what if something goes wrong? — is turned on its head: who would fight hardest when it does? The person who loves them. McLaughlin integrates the personal emotion rather than compartmentalizing it, naming it in the OR rather than suppressing it. [1] — Dr. Mark McLaughlin "Every surgeon is taught never to operate on friends or family. McLaughlin has broken that rule with 10–15 friends. His logic: who cares mor…" 1:09:22
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