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The Salon Childhood vs. the Nuclear Family Fantasy — and Raising Kids Who Can Debate
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Dax raises the obvious counterpoint: great as these parents sound, weren't they pretty self-consumed? Olivia concedes the point but argues that what saved it was their deliberate choice to bring their intellectual world home — making the house a salon rather than leaving it empty. She reveals she used to crawl under the dinner table during her parents' parties to eavesdrop. She connects this to research suggesting kids learn to socialize by observing their parents' social lives, not by being separated into a children's world. Meanwhile, her own friends would come over just to sit with her mother, who took their dreams seriously rather than dismissing them. The fantasy she harbored was of the opposite: the sitcom nuclear family where a mom was always home with food ready.
Olivia Wilde grew up on the Georgetown campus making up college majors to impress older students, got her braces removed at 13 because they made her look young, and was snuck to boarding school at Andover partly to save her from herself. She now says it was the best thing that ever happened to her.
