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Why Nobody Feels Loved Anymore - Sonja Lyubomirsky - #1115
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Is This the Best Definition For Introvert and Extrovert?
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The popular idea that socializing drains introverts is not well-supported by evidence. Studies mostly show introverts don't feel depleted by acting social, and standing social habits can retrain anyone.
We adapt to everything that stays constant — a new car, a new city, even a spouse. The only escape routes are novelty, surprise, and gratitude. Gratitude specifically counters the habit of taking things for granted. And bizarrely, one thing humans almost never adapt to: a beautiful view.