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How to Get More Out of Life: Make More Money & Build Something That Matters with Seth Godin

Explore episode Jul 11, 2026

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The Fear of Selling: Dance With It, Don't Deny It

At 53:29 · chapter starts 53:15

Seth names the specific fear that stops most people from building a business: the fear of a transaction. Not public speaking, not failure, not criticism — the simple, primal discomfort of approaching a stranger and asking them to exchange money for something you made. He makes it viscerally real with a thought experiment: imagine walking into a bus station and offering someone a $5 bill for your $10 — it's obviously a good deal, yet it's terrifying. That fear, he says, is why people hide behind Instagram posts instead of actually selling. The Girl Scout cookie story is the antidote made concrete: replace the question that invites rejection ('Want to buy cookies?') with a question that invites engagement ('What's your favorite kind?'), and the fear dissolves before it can take hold. Once someone answers, they're already in a face-to-face conversation with a 9-year-old, and of course they buy. The lesson is not to make the fear go away — name it, accept it as the shadow side of the transaction, and dance with it.

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The Girl Scout Cookie Question That Changed Everything

How to Get More Out of Life: Make More Money & Build Someth… · Jul 11, 2026 Business

'Want to buy some Girl Scout cookies?' gets ignored. 'What's your favorite kind of Girl Scout cookie?' gets an answer — and once someone answers, they're already engaged, face-to-face with a 9-year-old, and of course they're buying cookies. The fear of the transaction is the problem; the right question dissolves it.

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