After moving to New York City with no contacts and being laughed at on his first night, Howes made the USA national handball team within roughly one year.
Snapshot · The School of Greatness
After moving to New York City with no contacts and being laughed at on his first night, Howes made the USA national handball team within roughly one year.
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At 34:20 · chapter starts 26:00
The third and perhaps deepest shift reframes the entire problem: overthinking is a symptom, not the disease. The disease is a fundamental lack of self-trust — and smart people weaponize thinking as a sophisticated way to avoid the risk of acting [1] — Lewis Howes "Underneath all the overthinking is a simple lack of self-trust. Smart people use thinking as a way to avoid risk. But self-trust isn't buil…" 26:00 . Howes asks the key diagnostic question: was there a time you moved without certainty and it changed everything? His answer is the most cinematic story of the episode: packing up in Ohio with only a handball gym's website address, buying a ticket to New York City with no confirmation anyone would let him in, showing up the first night and being laughed at, and then — through consistent showing up — making the USA national team within a year [2] — Lewis Howes "With no contacts, no confirmation anyone would let him in the gym, and only a website address, Lewis Howes packed up from Ohio and moved to…" 31:00 . The principle crystallizes: you will never have full certainty on anything. Howes grounds this in a nightly ritual with his wife Martha where they exchange gratitude, prayers, and appreciation, and he acknowledges that 150,000 people die every day — waiting for the right moment is, statistically, a bad strategy. The chapter closes with Bob Proctor's definition of courage: fear won't stop me [3] — Lewis Howes "Courage doesn't mean having no fear. It means feeling the fear and moving anyway. Bob Proctor's simple declaration — 'fear won't stop me' —…" 38:45 .
Underneath all the overthinking is a simple lack of self-trust. Smart people use thinking as a way to avoid risk. But self-trust isn't built by having all the answers — it's built by moving into uncertainty and discovering you can handle whatever comes.
With no contacts, no confirmation anyone would let him in the gym, and only a website address, Lewis Howes packed up from Ohio and moved to New York City to chase an Olympic handball dream. He was laughed at his first night. Within a year, he made the USA national team.
Howes launched his first podcast episode on an iPhone with zero experience and went on to produce nearly 2,000 episodes and three New York Times bestselling books.
Approximately 150,000 people die every day globally, a figure Howes uses to reframe the urgency of acting now rather than waiting for perfect conditions.
Thomas's wife is already ranked in the top 2,000 CrossFit athletes in the world — roughly the top 1% — and Thomas wants her to pursue the sport professionally now that he is graduating law school.
Research shows athletes who mentally imagine practicing basketball or soccer have better performance than those who do not include imagination in their training.
Rico Verhoeven dominated approximately 10 of 12 rounds against undisputed heavyweight boxing champion Oleksandr Usyk before a controversial post-bell stoppage.
Rico's appeal confirmed the fight was stopped after the bell rang, and the ringside doctor found no concussion or disorientation — yet the result was never overturned.
Glory Kickboxing uses 5 judges rather than boxing's 3, which Joe Rogan argues reduces the chance of a corrupt or incompetent minority swinging the result.
Rico Verhoeven had only one professional boxing match before fighting undisputed heavyweight champion Oleksandr Usyk for the WBC title.
Despite having just one pro boxing match, Rico Verhoeven had been training boxing for 15 years alongside his kickboxing career.
Rico used a full 6 months to transition from kickboxing stance to a proper boxing stance under trainer Peter Fury, calling it essential rewiring.
Rico Verhoeven has had approximately 75 professional kickboxing fights, giving him a massive combat sports experience advantage over pure boxers.
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