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The Uncomfortable Science Of Sex Differences - Steve Stewart-Williams - #1120

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The Biggest Personality Differences Between Men and Women

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Moving to personality, Stewart-Williams focuses on the two most consistent sex differences in the Big Five: neuroticism (women higher, ~0.2–0.5 SD) and agreeableness (women higher, ~0.2–0.5 SD). Neuroticism is explained as the flip side of male risk-taking — anxiety is self-protective, and women evolved more of it because the cost-benefit calculus of risk is different when your ceiling offspring number is lower. Agreeableness maps onto reduced within-sex competition and stronger selection for cooperative, compassionate social bonding. Smaller differences in openness, conscientiousness, and extraversion are noted. The episode's most empirically striking finding in this section is the people-versus-things career interest gap: an effect size of around one standard deviation or more, first documented in 1911, and found in 53/53 nations in one study and 80/80 in another with half a million participants. Despite decades of deliberate social pressure to close it, the gap has not budged. Its persistence through the gender equality paradox — growing larger in more egalitarian societies — is one of the strongest arguments for an innate contribution.

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The Clark-Hatfield Study: 75% of Men Say Yes, 0% of Women

The Uncomfortable Science Of Sex Differences - Steve Stewar… · Jul 6, 2026 Science

In the Clark-Hatfield study, a good-looking stranger approached random campus students offering a date, a visit to their room, or immediate sex. For the sex offer: 75% of men said yes, 0% of women did. Men who declined apologised and asked for a rain check. Women who were approached simply reacted with disgust.

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