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#483 – Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex

Explore episode Oct 14, 2025

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Murder

At 44:21 · chapter starts 43:59

Drawing on her work with prosecutors, true crime producers, and researchers, Shaw presents the uncomfortable truth: most murders happen over trivialities — a four-dollar debt, a stolen bike. They are not the product of psychopathy or long-term planning; they are bad decisions in high-emotion moments. The 'victimization gap' concept explains why society resists this truth — we want extreme causes for extreme consequences. The discussion then pivots to the astonishing mismatch in the criminal justice system: murder has a recidivism rate of just 1–3%, yet murderers receive society's longest sentences. By contrast, fraud, elder abuse, and sexual violence have high recidivism rates but lighter penalties. Shaw argues this is backwards from a harm-reduction standpoint. Restorative justice enters the conversation as a framework that many victims' families actually prefer — they want understanding and apology, not just imprisonment. The chapter ends with a brief but provocative discussion of incels: their psychology of entitlement and the role of internet echo chambers in radicalizing ordinary grievance into potential violence.

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