Snapshot · The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
Research showed that people were significantly more likely to vote if they were prompted to identify as 'a voter' rather than simply asked if they were voting that day.
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Steven Bartlett gives the listener a behind-the-scenes look at his leadership style: he intentionally labels his team members by identity rather than praising their actions. Studies he's read show that 'you are a kind person' leads to more kind behaviour than 'that was kind.' So he calls team members innovators and experimenters, not because they were innovative once, but to build the identity. Clear reinforces this with the voter turnout research: prompting people to identify as 'a voter' produced significantly higher turnout than simply asking if they intended to vote. The same architecture — identity first, behaviour second — appears in both cases. Clear illustrates with the smoking example from Atomic Habits: 'I'm trying not to smoke' still positions the person as a smoker trying to resist. 'I'm not a smoker' signals a completed identity shift. Bartlett connects this to Leon Festinger's cognitive dissonance — the psychological discomfort of holding contradictory beliefs. If your identity is 'I am a great accountant' and AI threatens that story, your instinct is to dismiss either the AI or your own identity. We are poorly equipped to hold two contradictory things as simultaneously true. The lesson for habits: the more your actions reinforce a clear identity, the less dissonance you have to manage. [1] — Steven Bartlett "Say 'that was kind' and behaviour barely moves. Say 'you are a kind person' and behaviour shifts. Research on voter turnout shows the same …" 17:40
Say 'that was kind' and behaviour barely moves. Say 'you are a kind person' and behaviour shifts. Research on voter turnout shows the same pattern — 'you are a voter' outperforms 'are you going to vote?' Steven Bartlett uses this deliberately with his team every day.
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A large Harvard study found that a wandering mind is an unhappy mind — people report greater happiness when their attention is tethered to the present, even if the task is unpleasant.
A key study finding that we have a 'credit card's worth of plastic' in our bodies was likely skewed because researchers used nitrile gloves that shed plastic particles onto the microplastic detector.
Emotionally sensitive people have a hyperactive amygdala, an underactive prefrontal cortex, and a frayed connection between the two — making emotional regulation structurally harder.
Rejection sensitivity can be observed as early as age 2 or 3, suggesting it has strong developmental and likely genetic roots.
A Yale study found that non-judgmental observation of emotions — without rushing to resolve them — reduces activation in the brain, making it a powerful regulation tool.
Dan Gilbert's research found that the psychological immune system — the brain's ability to justify and find satisfaction in choices — activates most powerfully when a decision is perceived as irreversible.
Barry Schwartz's research found that maximizers — people who try to optimize every decision — tend to achieve objectively better outcomes but report lower happiness than satisficers who choose 'good enough.'
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