Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Olivia Wilde

Explore episode Jun 29, 2026

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Don't Worry Darling: Car Chases, Incel Culture, and the Politics of Sex Scenes

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Don't Worry Darling emerged from Olivia's longtime fascination with psychological thrillers (Vertigo, Seven, Silence of the Lambs) combined with her anxiety about early incel culture and the way technology could be weaponized to strip women of rights. She notes the film predated the tradwife trend that exploded during COVID. The production itself was a logistical triumph — shot for $30 million to look like $100 million, with stunt drivers she cast directly into the film. The dining room table scene is discussed as an intentional exploration of female pleasure, which Olivia defends using Esther Perel's argument that eroticism is not inherently politically correct and a woman's fantasies are allowed to range freely. The crew wrote a letter refuting all the reported on-set drama. Nobody cared. Jennifer Garner had warned her years earlier: once the media casts you in its soap opera, that narrative runs forever.

TV & Film
Don't Worry Darling, Incel Culture, and the Origins of the Film

Olivia Wilde · Jun 29, 2026 TV & Film

Don't Worry Darling was conceived as a response to the early rumblings of incel culture — the fear that technology could be weaponized to drag women back into a stripped-rights utopia designed by men. Olivia Wilde says it predated tradwife culture, which exploded later during COVID.

Society & Culture
Female Pleasure, Feminism, and the Complicated Politics of Sex Scenes

Olivia Wilde · Jun 29, 2026 Society & Culture

There's a genuine tension between feminist ideals and erotic filmmaking — but Olivia Wilde argues that Esther Perel got it right: eroticism is not politically correct by nature. The problem isn't female nudity or desire; it's that for decades Hollywood showed female orgasm only as a service to the male gaze.

TV & Film
The Tabloid Machine: How 'Don't Worry Darling' Drama Was Fiction

Olivia Wilde · Jun 29, 2026 TV & Film

The reported on-set drama around Don't Worry Darling was almost entirely fabricated, Olivia Wilde says — the entire crew wrote a letter saying so and nobody cared. Jennifer Garner warned Wilde years earlier: once the media casts you as a character in their soap opera, the narrative runs on its own.

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