The Mel Robbins Podcast

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How to Rewire Your Mind to Handle Anything, Turn Off Stress, & Calm Your Body

Explore episode May 28, 2026

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Positive Self-Talk and Social Support: The Two Underrated Resilience Pillars

At 44:40 · chapter starts 41:40

Back from the break, Mel steers toward positive self-talk and social connection — two pillars that Dr. Narula argues are both underrated and under-practiced. On self-talk, the insight is simple but pointed: extend to yourself the same love and encouragement you would give to your child or closest friend. On social support, Dr. Narula invokes two authorities: former Surgeon General Vivek Murthy, her former resident at Brigham and Women's, whose work on loneliness shifted national conversation, and Robert Waldinger's landmark Harvard longitudinal study showing that quality of social connections — not wealth, status, or health habits — was the single best predictor of quality of life. She illustrates this with the story of a retired patient who joined a Central Park volunteer group twice a week and credits it with saving him from depression. The message: social investment does not require a wide social circle — one relationship, one group, one phone call is enough to start.

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