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Social role theory says patriarchy inflates sex differences. The data say the opposite. In the most gender-equal, least patriarchal societies, sex differences in personality and career interests are consistently larger, not smaller. Nobody predicted this — including Stewart-Williams himself.
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Rather than dismissing sociocultural explanations, Stewart-Williams stress-tests them. Research in Western societies actually shows parents treat sons and daughters fairly similarly in key domains — equally encouraging independence and success. Behavioural genetics' second law (identical twins reared apart are often no more different as adults than those reared together) pulls the rug from claims about large parental effects. Then comes the centrepiece: the gender equality paradox [1] — Steve Stewart-Williams "Social role theory says patriarchy inflates sex differences. The data say the opposite. In the most gender-equal, least patriarchal societi…" 35:00 . Both social role theory and patriarchy theory predict that stricter gender norms and more patriarchal societies should amplify sex differences. The data consistently show the opposite — in more egalitarian, less patriarchal societies, differences in personality, career interests, and even physical traits like height actually tend to be larger. Stewart-Williams admits this surprised even him: he had expected patriarchy to push the sexes further apart. The sociocultural rebuttal — that sex-segregated societies skew self-report comparisons — is acknowledged but countered: the paradox also appears in objective cognitive and physical measures, not just personality surveys.
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In more gender-equal, less patriarchal societies, sex differences in personality, career preferences, and some cognitive abilities tend to be larger, not smaller — the opposite of what social role theory predicts.
Critics of the gender equality paradox argue that sex-segregated societies skew self-report data. Stewart-Williams fires back: the paradox also appears in cognitive abilities like spatial reasoning and even in physical traits like height — not just personality surveys. The critique doesn't land.
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