Podbit · Modern Wisdom
Only 5–10% of mammal species form pair bonds and share child-rearing. But roughly 90% of birds do. That puts humans squarely in the bird camp — and the implication is powerful: biparental investment is the primary reason human sex differences are more muted than in most mammals.
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