Podbit · The Shawn Ryan Show
A woman at the National Foster Parents Association openly told Jen Lilley she made $28,000 a month fostering — by deliberately failing children in school and keeping them on unnecessary medications to drive up their government reimbursement tier. The incentive structure meant to help kids is being weaponized against them.
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Jen Lilley delivers a concentrated burst of statistics with explicit sourcing caveats — she acknowledges numbers vary by study, funding source, and sample — but presents what she describes as the current figures. Children who age out of foster care without adoption or guardianship face catastrophic outcomes: at least 46% end up homeless by 26; only 3% earn a college degree by 26; only about half graduate high school or get a GED; boys are 5 times more likely to be arrested than their peers; girls are 14 times more likely; boys are 6 times more likely to be convicted of a crime; about half will develop substance abuse problems; girls are twice as likely to get pregnant before 21. The crowning statistic: foster kids represent less than 1% of children in the U.S., but 17-20% of people in American prisons and jails came from foster care. Every statistic, Lilley insists, represents a child — not a number.
Jen Lilley encountered a woman at the National Foster Parents Association who disclosed making $28,000 per month from foster care by deliberately keeping children on medications and failing them in school to raise their reimbursement rate.
According to a May 2026 HHS survey, there are currently 344,000 children in U.S. foster care.
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