Podbit · The Tim Dillon Show
Public approval of gay marriage is falling. Tim Dillon argues the culprit isn't homophobia — it's a trans movement that went so far so fast that it exhausted ordinary people's goodwill and is now dragging the entire LGBTQ coalition backward.
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The Bonnie Blue segment opens with Tim's genuinely puzzled question: is this person real? She's pregnant, publicly inviting the public to celebrate her baby by urinating on her, and reportedly drinking at nightclubs while pregnant. Tim is not interested in standard moral condemnation; he's asking a structural question. [1] — Tim Dillon "Public approval of gay marriage is falling. Tim Dillon argues the culprit isn't homophobia — it's a trans movement that went so far so fast…" 1:11:05 He connects the spectacle to a broader cultural dynamic: the LGBTQ movement has pushed so far so fast — on childhood gender transitions, on replacing 'mother' with 'gestating person' in New York legislation — that it's exhausting ordinary people and actively eroding the gains the movement spent decades building. He notes that polling shows approval of gay marriage is falling, and attributes it not to resurgent homophobia but to overreach. [2] — Tim Dillon "Public approval of gay marriage dropping: Tim Dillon claimed that polling shows public approval of gay marriage and of gay people in genera…" 1:11:30 His prescription is unusual for a gay comic: you have to give people peace. You have to allow for disagreement, for religious dissent, for people who don't want to affirm every position to not feel they're being coerced. If you don't, he argues, you'll create the exact backlash you're trying to prevent — and you can already see it happening.
Tim Dillon claimed that polling shows public approval of gay marriage and of gay people in general is declining, which he attributes to overreach by the broader LGBTQ movement.
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