Podbit · Parenting Hell with Rob Beckett and Josh Widdicombe
Josh arrives at a hotel booked for him to record the podcast in, only to be told he's been marked as a no-show. He can't hide his disappointment on his face. Rob points out, correctly, that if you've rented the room, you're allowed to use it whenever you want before checkout.
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Josh's producer Michael has booked him a hotel room so he can record the podcast away from the noise of the renovation. The problem: he didn't arrive the night before, so the hotel marked him as a no-show and he has to awkwardly explain that he just wants to use the room for work 'this morning' — a turn of phrase that makes him sound, as both hosts acknowledge, like he has booked a room for an illicit mid-morning liaison. The accessible room they offer him has a lower bed (which he doesn't need) and is, at least, a functioning room. Rob walks Josh through the renovation phases with increasing confusion, eventually establishing that end-of-July will get Josh back the first two-thirds of the house — but not his bedroom.
Josh has been sleeping on a mattress topper on a dirty carpet for months during his home renovation. His asthma has returned. Rob is baffled that he hasn't simply ordered a cheap mattress. Josh insists there isn't room.
Josh has been sleeping on a mattress topper on carpet for months during his home renovation, which he believes has triggered his asthma returning.
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