Podbit · The Hidden Third
After prison, Nikki relapsed, burned through her remaining drugs, and wound up broke and homeless. Sex work became the only way to eat and avoid sleeping in alleys. She dissociated more each time — until a positive pregnancy test in a restaurant bathroom changed everything.
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The exit from prison did not produce clarity. Nikki went directly to her dealer's apartment, reconnected, and relapsed when she woke up surrounded by drying meth. The dealer eventually cut her loose — kindly, generously, but firmly — and suddenly Nikki had no money, no product, and a reputation so burned that even former customers wouldn't buy from her. She ended up on Waikiki's streets, homeless, surviving in the spaces between: sex work to afford a hotel room, dumpster diving when there was no other option, breaking into beach bathrooms to wash up. She worked alongside a male hustler who was also an addict; together they navigated a brutal economy of survival. One regular client — a woman with a nice apartment who fed them and kept them high — Nikki eventually recognized, in retrospect, as a pedophile who was later murdered. She watched the news item go by on a street television and understood immediately what had happened.
Nikki revealed that the meth in her Hawaii supply chain came from Korea and Japan via Asian routes, not from Mexico as might be assumed.
Broke, homeless, and fresh off a moment where she had almost ended her life, Nikki shoplifted a pregnancy test, took it in a restaurant bathroom stall, and watched it come back positive. Seeing a mother and child washing their hands, she walked out into the sunlight and decided she was ready.
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