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As a child in a Buenos Aires shantytown, Diego Maradona fell into a cesspit and nearly drowned, saved only by his uncle jumping in after him. Fin Taylor suggests this may be Maradona's Spider-Man villain origin story — and there was probably a lot of cocaine in the shit.
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Switching to Argentina in 1978, the picture the hosts paint is one of almost incomprehensible chaos and violence. Inflation had exceeded 560% in 1976, a bomb was detonating somewhere in Buenos Aires every three hours, and political assassinations were occurring every five hours [1] — Horatio Gould "560% inflation in Argentina 1976: Argentine inflation exceeded 560% in 1976, making the economy effectively 'psychedelic' and ungovernable." 04:52 . Into this cauldron steps the military junta of Jorge Videla, who inherit the hosting rights from the previous government and view the World Cup as a propaganda opportunity. The junta would go on to disappear an estimated 30,000 people. Johan Cruyff refuses to travel after a kidnapping attempt on his family. The man responsible for building the stadiums is blown up in a car bomb hours before the opening match — possibly suicide, the hosts speculate, possibly just probability at work in a country detonating round the clock. Maradona is 17 and too young to play, but the foundations of his story are already being laid in a Buenos Aires shantytown where, as a child, he fell into a cesspit and almost drowned [2] — Fin Taylor "As a child in a Buenos Aires shantytown, Diego Maradona fell into a cesspit and nearly drowned, saved only by his uncle jumping in after hi…" 07:40 .
Argentine inflation exceeded 560% in 1976, making the economy effectively 'psychedelic' and ungovernable.
In 1976, a bomb went off in Buenos Aires on average every 3 hours, and there was a political assassination every 5 hours.
The Videla military junta that hosted the 1978 World Cup disappeared an estimated 30,000 people.
To reach the 1978 final, Argentina needed to beat Peru by at least 4 goals. They won 6-0. The alleged price: 35,000 tons of grain, $50 million in frozen assets released after the game, and a promise from the Videla regime to 'process' 13 Peruvian political dissidents — a euphemism for torture and execution.
Most people confuse things they value instrumentally (because they get them other things) with things they value intrinsically (for their own sake). Greenberg's friend stayed in a miserable relationship for years because she was living by her parents' values, not her own — the values map made the mismatch instantly visible.
Jungian analyst James Hollis distills a good life to four things: shut up (have gratitude, stop whining), suit up (prepare yourself to fulfill a role), show up (do the actual work in service of others), and daily get out of stimulus-response to ask what your deeper wish actually is. The whole landscape of self-help slots into just these four bins.
Toward the end of their 20s, many men discover that all the strategies that earned them recognition and success have stopped working. It's a second adolescence — more important than the first — where the question shifts from 'how do I play the game?' to 'who do I actually want to become?' Most people going through it look fragile from the outside. They're actually building a foundation.
Boys are told from childhood not to cry, not to feel, not to be weak — but anger gets a pass. The result: a generation of men who reroute every emotion, including sadness and fear, through the only acceptable channel. Emotional avoidance isn't toughness, it's misdirected sensitivity.
Men need a 'bank account' of masculine status — muscle, money, success — before society grants them permission to express vulnerability. Chris Bumstead can cry at the Olympia and get celebrated. A struggling nobody doing the same thing gets contempt. This creates a tragic paradox where the men who most need emotional support get the least of it.
Emotional sensitivity isn't a defect — it's a high-resolution scanner for human experience. Highly sensitive people pick up body language, tone, and unspoken tension that others miss entirely. In the right environment, that's not a liability. It's a superpower.
Her supervisor told her she was too emotional for the pediatric ICU. So she asked herself: 'What area of medicine can I cry in?' That question led her to psychiatry. Finding the environment that holds your emotional sensitivity isn't retreat — it's strategy.
For someone with RSD, ghosting isn't ambiguity — it's a self-verdict. Their brain doesn't read 'this relationship ended,' it reads 'I am the reason this failed.' No closure means the brain fills the gap with evidence of personal insufficiency, and it keeps filling indefinitely.
More freedom doesn't produce more happiness — it produces more anxiety. Kierkegaard identified this 180 years ago: the more options you have, the more you feel the 'dizziness of freedom,' a paralytic unease at having to choose any single one. The freest generation in history is, by his prediction, exactly the most anxious.
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