Quote · Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra Solomon
"I'm Thinking About Getting Back Together With My Ex." (Part One)
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Review, the Supercharged Extension, and Episode Close
At 40:30 · chapter starts 39:25
The closing section does double duty: it crystallises the six questions by recasting them in their relational form (shifting from individual 'you' to plural 'you two'), and it offers a next-level challenge for those ready to supercharge their relational self-awareness. [1] — Dr. Alexandra Solomon "Once you've done the work of naming your own behavioral commitments, there's a next-level move: asking your ex directly, 'What behaviors wo…" 40:20 That challenge is asking your ex directly: 'What behaviors would you like me not to repeat?' — a brave, vulnerable move that Dr. Solomon calls both brave and beautiful, as long as it grows from a foundation of individual accountability rather than replacing it. She closes warmly, noting that feedback is her love language and directing listeners to Part 2 next week for questions 7 through 12, with the companion worksheet due at dralexandrasolomon.com/secondchances.
Once you've done the work of naming your own behavioral commitments, there's a next-level move: asking your ex directly, 'What behaviors would you like me not to repeat?' It's brave, it's vulnerable, and it dramatically accelerates the kind of mutual accountability that makes version 2.0 actually different from version 1.0.
