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#482 – Pavel Durov: Telegram, Freedom, Censorship, Money, Power & Human Nature
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At 17:39 · chapter starts 14:37
Durov's first encounter with the science of intoxicants came at age 11, when his biochemistry teacher handed him a book called 'The Illusion of Paradise' that described the biological and chemical effects of various substances on the body. The revelation about alcohol — that it literally paralyzes brain cells and causes some to die permanently — was enough. If the brain is your most valuable tool for success and happiness, why would you destroy it for a few hours of pleasure? For Durov, the logic is airtight. Fridman pushes on the social dimension: alcohol is often used as a social lubricant, and refusing it at parties can feel isolating. Durov's response is characteristically analytical — the desire to drink is almost always masking a deeper fear, usually something as simple as fear of approaching someone attractive. Fix the fear; you no longer need the alcohol. He also points to humanity's ancient tribal wiring: for hundreds of thousands of years, being cast out of the group meant death, which is why the fear of social rejection is so powerful. Recognizing this irrational evolutionary artifact as irrational is the first step to overcoming it.
Durov has completely abstained from alcohol, tobacco, coffee, pills, and illegal drugs for over 20 years, crediting this discipline for his success and health.
At age 11, a biochemistry teacher gave Durov a book explaining what alcohol actually does to brain cells — paralyzes them, kills some permanently. If your brain is your most valuable tool, why destroy it for short-term pleasure? He's been alcohol-free for over 20 years since.
