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Fashion as a Tool: The Philosophy of Intentional Dressing
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Calling fashion 'not for me' doesn't opt you out — you're in the game of being alive and being in the world. The question is whether you're using the tool intentionally or letting it use you.
Most people's closets are full of people they no longer are: the jeans from your twenties, the dress you bought for the person you hoped to become. That's why opening the closet feels like a minefield — it's not your present self looking back at you, it's a gallery of past selves judging you.