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5 ruthless business lessons from one week in NYC
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Lesson: What does it really mean?
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At Gary Vaynerchuk's social club Fly Fish, Sam bumped into Nick Dio — described as GaryVee's right-hand man and human extension. Nick's official title is vague, but his actual job is precise: in every social gathering, he identifies the 'social slack' — the music too loud, the two groups not yet bridged, the person who doesn't know who to talk to — and fixes it invisibly, elevating the entire room's experience. Nobody notices what he did, but the room is better for it. [1] — Sam Parr "Every room has social slack — someone not knowing who to talk to, two groups that haven't connected yet, drinks that ran out. Gary Vaynerch…" 11:52 He illustrated this with the Knicks' championship celebration: through years of relationship-building, the team chose Fly Fish to celebrate their first title in 50 years, and Jalen Brunson's now-viral 'F Wemby' toast leaked from that exact room. Nick also described his method for entering a new industry: meet the 150 most interesting people doing interesting things, go in with zero agenda, and pick up on the back end — whether that's a podcast appearance, an investment, a friendship, or an insight. The win reveals itself.
When a business fails, almost nobody extracts the real lesson. They say 'I learned so much' but can't name the main thing. Chris from Tiny Capital pointed this out: the lesson 'don't start a restaurant in rainy season' is laughably shallow when your restaurant just failed. The discipline to ask 'what does it REALLY mean?' is rare and valuable.
Every room has social slack — someone not knowing who to talk to, two groups that haven't connected yet, drinks that ran out. Gary Vaynerchuk's right-hand man Nick Dio's entire job is to identify that slack and fix it before anyone notices. That invisible service is what brought the Knicks to celebrate their championship at Gary's restaurant.
The New York Knicks celebrated their first NBA championship in 50 years at Gary Vaynerchuk's club Fly Fish, illustrating the power of relationship-building.
Former MFM producer Ben Wilson announced he has stage 4 high-grade neuroendocrine carcinoma affecting his brain, bones, lungs, and liver.
Former MFM producer and 'How to Take Over the World' host Ben Wilson has publicly disclosed a stage 4 high-grade neuroendocrine carcinoma diagnosis affecting his brain, bones, lungs, and liver. He's seeking a rare drug called tarlatamab, and has launched a GoFundMe. His message: live like you're living, not like you're dying.
LeBron James spends $1 million a year on his body because his body IS the product. The question every entrepreneur should ask: what's the equivalent investment in your core asset? One executive coach spent $1 million learning from the world's 15 best coaches across different modalities — and made himself exponentially more valuable.
LeBron James reportedly spends $1 million a year on his body, which Shaan uses as a metaphor for extreme investment in your core product.
An executive coach spent $1 million of his own money on immersive one-on-one training with the world's top coaches across 15 different modalities over 2 years.
