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Dr Rachel Rubin: Women’s Sexual Health, Menopause, Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), and Orgasms!
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Is It Normal Not To Orgasm?
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20% of women report inability to orgasm; the main cause is education failure. The clitoris — not the vagina — is where orgasm originates for most women, yet most women don't know where it is. [1] — Dr Rachel Rubin "The clitoris is the female equivalent of the penis — same tissue, same function, same need for direct stimulation to produce orgasm. Penetr…" 55:24
The clitoris is the female equivalent of the penis — same tissue, same function, same need for direct stimulation to produce orgasm. Penetrative sex does not stimulate the clitoris for most women. Men last an average of 5.5 minutes; women need 13–15 minutes of clitoral stimulation. The orgasm gap isn't biological inevitability — it's an education failure.
About 23% of women have a clitoral adhesion — where the hood gets stuck to the head of the clitoris. No gynaecologist exam ever checks for this. Published data shows that removing these adhesions in a simple office procedure improves orgasm, arousal, and satisfaction by 60–70%. Women have been told they're broken; they just needed this fixed.