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Matthew in Buffalo — Should We Sell the Farm?
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Matthew's call plays out in two parts after a phone drop. The farm's appeal is real — it's a lifestyle, an identity, a legacy. But the math tells a different story: a $3,000/month mortgage on a $120K single income, with 4 kids currently in daycare, means his wife's income is essentially spoken for by childcare. Selling the farm, land, and equipment generates roughly $800K — enough to buy a home in cash and eliminate the mortgage entirely. George walks through both paths: sell and simplify (wife stays home, no mortgage on $120K), or keep the farm (student loans paid by year-end, land debt paid in 3 years, but mortgage persists). He leans toward selling after noting that the wife's real goal is peace and presence, not farm life. [1] — George Kamel "A couple in their early 30s with 4 kids sit on $800K in farm equity but carry a $3,000/month mortgage that consumes most of one income. Sel…" 1:24:12
A couple in their early 30s with 4 kids sit on $800K in farm equity but carry a $3,000/month mortgage that consumes most of one income. Selling the farm, buying a home in cash, and living on $120K with no mortgage isn't losing the dream — it might be finding it.
Liquidating $800K in farm equity could eliminate a mortgage and enable a stay-at-home lifestyle on a single $120K income — a compelling trade-off worth serious consideration.
