75%+ women with sexual pain
Up to 75% of women will report that sex is painful at some point in their lives, yet pain during sex is chronically under-diagnosed.
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Dr Rachel Rubin: Women’s Sexual Health, Menopause, Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), and Orgasms!
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Jun 22, 2026
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Is Pain During Sex Normal?
At 47:00 · chapter starts 46:47
Pain during sex is never normal and always deserves diagnosis. Up to 75% of women experience it; causes include hormonal changes, skin conditions, tight pelvic muscles, nerves, or endometriosis.
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