61% of MAID recipients never use the medication
Suzanne O'Brien cited data showing that 61% of people who obtain prescriptions for end-of-life medication under MAID laws never actually use them.
Where this was said
Making Friends With Death: O'Brien's Philosophy of Living
At 50:47 · chapter starts 50:30
The episode's most hopeful segment arrives as O'Brien answers Dubner's question about when to start thinking about death. Her answer — 'When you were 40' — is partly serious. Working with dying patients transformed her own life overnight: she stopped seeing exercise as a burden and started seeing it as a gift, treating each day as 'one little lifetime' [1] — Suzanne O'Brien "O'Brien says confronting death changed her life overnight: she went from 'I have to go to the gym' to 'I get to go to the gym.' She argues …" 51:16 . She distills her philosophy into a few principles: find moments of joy, practice presence and purpose, cultivate gratitude, forgive and receive forgiveness, and don't leave undone what matters to you. The argument is that making friends with death enables a fuller life — not a morbid preoccupation but a realistic reckoning with mortality that ancient societies and modern hospice workers alike have known to be healing. The conversation is warm, slightly urgent, and devoid of the abstractions that dominated the earlier philosophical debates.
61% Never Use the Medication — So What Do They Want?
61% of people who legally obtain end-of-life medication under MAID laws never use it. O'Brien argues this reveals the real driver: people want the option, the sense of control, not necessarily the act itself — which raises the question of whether addressing fear is a better intervention than prescribing lethal drugs.
Making Friends With Death to Live Fully
O'Brien says confronting death changed her life overnight: she went from 'I have to go to the gym' to 'I get to go to the gym.' She argues that accepting death's inevitability is not morbid but liberating, and that this awareness — once passed down generationally — can be taught and restored.
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