On Purpose with Jay Shetty

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Riz Ahmed: How to Silence Your Inner Critic (And Build REAL Self Worth)

Explore episode Jun 10, 2026

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A Childhood Memory That Shaped Everything

At 9:16 · chapter starts 7:02

Asked what childhood memory defines him today, Riz Ahmed offers two contrasting stories. The first is stark: at age 8, skinheads put a knife to his brother's throat while he watched. The shock of being violently othered made him more vigilant about his identity and set him on a lifelong journey of code-switching between cultural environments — a journey he now recognises as the foundation of his acting. The second memory is joyful: as a round-headed child nicknamed 'Golu' (meaning 'little round thing'), he would be brought downstairs at community gatherings to dance wildly for rows of clapping aunties, fuelled by Coca-Cola, experiencing pure animal expression and affirmation. Both stories, he argues, shaped everything — the tension between dangerous difference and the hunger for applause.

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