By the time Gage graduated high school in San Diego, approximately eight people in his class had overdosed on drugs, which he attributed to proximity to Mexico.
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Gage describes a San Diego adolescence defined by easy access to hard drugs. Tijuana was a 20-30 minute drive, and students would park at the McDonald's on the US side, walk across the border, buy drugs, and return in time for afternoon class. A girlfriend showed him the ropes. His brother Corey began using heroin at just 14 years old — a common trajectory in a city where the drug flowed freely. By the time Gage graduated, approximately eight of his classmates had overdosed. He connects this directly to the geographic reality of living on the border, a pattern he describes without sentimentality but with clear weight.
San Diego's proximity to Tijuana made hard drugs a lunch-break errand. By the time Gage graduated, eight classmates had overdosed. His brother started heroin at 14. The city's bro-military culture made asking for help unthinkable.
Gage's brother Corey began using heroin at age 14, a pattern common in San Diego given the city's proximity to Mexico.
At 18, Lukas Gage stepped in to defend a gay friend being attacked and got beaten by five men who broke his teeth, nose, and orbitals. The attackers walked free because lawyers argued Gage threw the first punch. His current gleaming smile is entirely veneers.
At 13, Lukas Gage spent Father's Day at his dad's house and was taken in the middle of the night by strangers and shipped to a troubled-teen wilderness program. Rather than reform him, it made him worse — more rebellious, more distrustful, and twice the nightmare.
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Cold exposure has good short-term alertness benefits but the evidence base for long-term health benefits is much weaker than popularly believed.
In a randomized study of 20 habit-formation techniques run on hundreds of people, almost none of the techniques produced statistically meaningful results.
People given a tiny-habit fallback option (e.g. 10 squats instead of gym) were actually MORE successful at completing the full habit, not less.
The most effective habit-formation technique was 'habit reflection' — recalling a past successful habit, writing down what helped, then applying those lessons to a new habit.
A study found that simply scheduling enjoyable activities was as effective as standard cognitive behavioral therapy for depression, leading to its own therapy called behavioral activation.
The 'worry time' technique — deferring all worries to a designated time of day — helps people realize they have more control over worry than they thought and reveals it is less useful than it feels.
A study found that participants told to try to stay awake while in bed fell asleep faster than participants told to try to sleep — illustrating the paradox of direct effort.
Spencer Greenberg reduced his severe social anxiety dramatically in roughly 6 months through a structured exposure therapy hierarchy, culminating in asking strangers for hugs.
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