Six core human strengths
Dr. Keltner identified six core human strengths that can guide purpose: knowledge, courage, kindness, justice, transcendence, and creativity.
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Feeling Lost or Behind in Life? The #1 Happiness Expert Explains How to Find Your Purpose
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Jul 13, 2026
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Two Questions to Find Your Purpose + Six Core Strengths
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Here is the practical heart of the episode. Dr. Keltner introduces two questions drawn from narrative psychology: What inspired you as a child? Who has inspired you most in life? The answers reveal a person's core strengths, which he maps onto six universal virtue categories: knowledge (curiosity, learning), courage (risk-taking, boldness), kindness (volunteering, tending to others), justice (fairness, advocacy), transcendence (spirituality, meditation, wonder), and creativity (humor, art, storytelling). Crucially, these are not career categories — they are where you come alive, regardless of how you make a living. Dr. Keltner turns the mirror on himself: raised by an artist father and a literature professor mother, he was never good at making art, but being in museums, seeing plays, and reading fiction makes him most alive. He uses a 2003 panel with the Dalai Lama to illustrate how moments of deep inspiration from role models clarify what you care about — and then how that clarity becomes a compass for volunteering, friendship, what films to watch, and what books to read [1] — Dacher Keltner "If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you wanna be happy, practice compassion." 39:41 .
Two Questions That Reveal Your Purpose
Start with two questions: What inspired you as a child? Who has inspired you most in life? Your answers point directly to your core strengths — the things that make you come alive — and those are your compass for a more purposeful life.
The Six Core Strengths That Guide Purpose
There are six universal human strengths that orient people toward meaning: knowledge, courage, kindness, justice, transcendence, and creativity. These aren't about your career or income — they're about where you come alive, and they're the compass for how to spend your weekend.
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