About 70% of people, when asked 'When I was growing up, money was ___,' answer 'scarce,' which Bayer argues explains global wealth concentration.
Snapshot · The School of Greatness
About 70% of people, when asked 'When I was growing up, money was ___,' answer 'scarce,' which Bayer argues explains global wealth concentration.
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Lewis Howes opens the substantive conversation by asking Bayer what three actionable steps someone could take today to escape scarcity. Bayer's answer is deliberately foundational: first, understand the mechanics of mindset and belief because anxiety and depression are driven by thought; second, surround yourself with people on the same trajectory, just as you would attend a yoga studio to learn yoga; and third, audit the belief systems that are quietly producing your current reality. This third step — identifying and transforming limiting programs — is positioned not as optional but as the root cause lever. Bayer makes a gentle analogy: there's no personal development store, but emergent communities (like his own and Lewis's) are filling that gap.
Ask yourself: 'When I was growing up, money was ___.' About 70% of people answer 'scarce.' That single unconscious belief is running the show, quietly keeping your nervous system away from wealth. Global inequality isn't just economic — it's neurological.
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