Snapshot · The School of Greatness
In 2016 Bayer discovered dangerously high mercury levels from an all-fish diet, followed by mold exposure — health challenges his brain interpreted as evidence of the belief 'there's something wrong with me.'
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In the episode's most personal section, Bayer maps the lifespan of his CORE program in vivid detail. Growing up with a brilliant but emotionally unavailable attorney father, he internalised the belief that 'there's something wrong with me' — not because it was stated aloud, but because correction was constant and affection was rare. He compensated through academic overachievement, then through a venture-backed tech startup he was running on $80,000 a year with $3,000 in his bank account, two homes in foreclosure, and ten consecutive years of being single. Below the surface, drugs, alcohol, sex, and pornography filled the gap. The psychocybernetic loop Bayer describes is precise: a belief directs the reticular activating system to find evidence for itself while filtering out contradictions. By 2016, the 'something's wrong with me' program had manifested as mercury poisoning from an all-fish diet, followed by mold exposure — his body producing literal evidence of the belief.
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