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Facts Are Your Friends...Not Feelings

Explore episode Aug 11, 2026
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Blaming Your Employer Won't Get You the Next Job

Facts Are Your Friends...Not Feelings · Aug 11, 2026 Business

Every time Gabby explains her job losses, she blames the employer. But she took a networking job knowing she didn't know networking, and she didn't force the training she needed. In a job interview, that story doesn't land the job. Reframe it: I made a bad choice and I learned from it.

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Gabby in San Antonio: Laid Off Twice — Time for a Reframe

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Gabby's IT career has hit two major bumps: her first employer's government contract dried up, and her second let her go at the 6-month mark after she struggled with network-level work she told them she didn't know when she was hired. She blames poor training. Dave listens and then delivers a career wake-up call: the way you tell this story — blaming the employer three times — will cost you every future job interview. You took a job you weren't qualified for and didn't force the training you needed. That's on you, and owning it is the only path forward. Dave encourages her to reframe it as a learning experience, sends her a copy of 'Finding the Work You're Wired To Do,' and tells her to go find a job that actually fits her skill set.

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