A Ugandan man sick in bed was served a TikTok job ad promising $800–$1,000 a month in Cambodia. Within days, without spending a single coin, he had a visa, a plane ticket, and a one-way trip into a scam compound.
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Shoaib's backstory is both ordinary and heartbreaking: orphaned by 18 with 10 siblings, he dropped out of school, worked his way up to become a chef, and was eventually forced to take bed rest due to debilitating stomach ulcers. Broke and idle, he was scrolling TikTok in January 2025 when a targeted ad promised $800–$1,000 a month in Cambodia — a staggering multiple of the $150–$200 he could earn in Kampala [1] — Shoaib "A Ugandan man sick in bed was served a TikTok job ad promising $800–$1,000 a month in Cambodia. Within days, without spending a single coin…" 08:08 . He dismissed it at first as an obvious scam, but the ad kept reappearing. Eventually, he figured it cost nothing to send a message. A WhatsApp number arrived immediately, and a recruiter described positions as supermarket attendant, delivery driver, or warehouse worker — all with visa, travel, food, and accommodation covered. Within days, a visa and plane ticket arrived without him spending a single coin. 'It was too good to be true,' Shoaib said — a phrase that would haunt the rest of his story.
Shoaib was targeted by a sponsored TikTok ad promising $800 to $1,000 a month for work in Cambodia, versus the $150–$200 he could earn at home in Kampala.
Shoaib arrived at the Bavette Business Center compound after a five-hour night drive in a Lexus, welcomed by music and a festival atmosphere. Within 24 hours, the bosses had taken his passport.
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