Podbit · Crime, Conspiracy, Cults and Murder
Taki was no innovator. At least 12 other South African serial predators used the exact same fake-job playbook. He found women who had no safety net, promised them the one thing they couldn't refuse, and took them somewhere no one could help them.
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The mechanics of how Taki selected and groomed his victims are chillingly methodical. Most of his victims spoke isiZulu, a language he shared — women who would feel comfortable with a man who sounded like home. He introduced himself as someone with connections to legitimate, well-known companies: Hewlett-Packard, Nestlé, Ilovo, Toyota. The specificity of the company names made the offers credible, especially to women who had never navigated a formal hiring process. The next step was always money: a bribe to secure the position, or a first month's rent at company housing. Amounts ranged from R300 to R3,000 — roughly $40 to $430 — and for women earning little or nothing, that sum was significant. Some had to borrow from relatives; some families turned to loan sharks. Then came the trip, which Taki made together with his victim by minibus, sometimes even getting her to cover his fare. To anyone else on the bus, they looked completely ordinary.
Taki charged victims between R300 and R3,000 — roughly $40 to $430 USD — as fake 'bribe' or housing fees, with some families borrowing from loan sharks to pay.
Taki killed 13 women over roughly 7 months, from February to September 2007, averaging nearly one victim every 2.5 weeks.
Social media feeds men and women the absolute worst caricatures of each other while stripping away the everyday, imperfect relationships that would calibrate their expectations. Combine that with smaller families and fewer cross-sex friendships, and you get a generation that talks about the opposite sex constantly but almost never to them.
The 'would you rather be alone with a man or a bear' debate went viral not because men are objectively more dangerous than ever, but because an entire fear industrial complex of influencers and safety products had already primed women to feel that way. Once the algorithm identifies you as worried about personal safety, the content and the scrunchie drink-covers never stop.
Women feel less safe not because danger has increased, but because trust in institutions — police, churches, schools — that used to enforce safety norms has collapsed. Young women are far less likely than older women to believe those institutions will handle sexual assault responsibly, leaving them with only individual self-protection as a fallback.
Even self-identified feminist women consistently told Daniel Cox in interviews and surveys that they want men to open doors, pay for dates, and show demonstrable care. The internet noise around 'benevolent sexism' drowns out this widespread, quietly held preference.
In focus groups in Philadelphia and Raleigh, every single hand went up when participants were asked if parents discussed financial stability and education. Zero hands went up for marriage or parenthood. Parents are shaping their children's ambitions with total silence on the experiences that matter most.
American families are smaller than ever, with roughly 1 in 5 children now growing up as only children. Without the daily friction of siblings — shared bedrooms, shared bathrooms, resolving disagreements — young people enter adult relationships without the negotiation muscles relationships require.
Online dating optimises for your existing preferences rather than expanding your horizons. People who meet online give bad first dates almost no second chances; people who meet through mutual friends are far more forgiving. The disembodied, checklist-driven nature of apps removes all the social cues that actually reveal character.
A split-sample survey found that men judge male and female cheating identically harshly, and women judge male cheating the same way men do. The outlier: young women are dramatically less likely to call female infidelity morally wrong, suggesting shared-fate thinking and personal experience of being cheated on are reshaping the moral calculus.
The monk mode trend encourages men to withdraw from social life to work on themselves — but this is precisely backwards. The research is clear: close friendships are the single most powerful predictor of whether a man dates, commits, and becomes his best self. Self-improvement without social reintegration is just sophisticated avoidance.
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