Podbit · The Hidden Third
Michelle's first skip-tracing job involved locating a van from a family in bereavement using a ruse phone call. She refused to take it until after the funeral, then helped the family use a life insurance payout to buy it back. She's been friends with her debtors ever since.
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Michelle's entry into skip tracing is rooted in a painful personal chapter. In her 30s, a controlling fiancé hit her once — and she spent an entire year ensuring he was prosecuted to the fullest extent. During that year, she was working at a large Texas personal injury law firm, where she discovered a natural gift for gathering and organizing information. Her boss gave her two weeks off to handle the situation. During that time she met Russell, a man in the repossession business, who introduced her to the world of skip tracing — which she initially thought sounded illegal [1] — Michelle Gomez "Michelle's first skip-tracing job involved locating a van from a family in bereavement using a ruse phone call. She refused to take it unti…" 13:53 . Her first test case: a van belonging to a family whose grandfather had just died, which had been missing for eight months. Michelle located it in a single phone call using a ruse about being a florist, gathered the funeral details, and refused to seize the van until after the burial. She later helped the family use their life insurance payout to buy it back — and became friends with them. That first case crystallized both her professional method and her ethical core.
Michelle's very first repossession case involved a van owed for 8 months with a debt of $7,000–$8,000; she located it via a ruse call and helped the family keep it by using their life insurance payout.
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