Podbit · The Indicator from Planet Money
Myra Kwadja and Natalie Moore both have sharp critiques of how the Obama Center handled housing displacement. But they've had to be careful: national media — including secretly right-wing outlets — want to use their nuance as anti-Obama ammunition. Ideally nuanced critique, Kwadja says, can't become fodder for white supremacists.
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Natalie Moore flags an important distinction that often got lost in the national media coverage of opposition to the Obama Center: not everyone pushing back was a housing organizer fighting for Black residents' right to stay. There was also Protect Our Parks, a white-led group whose argument was purely about parkland — they didn't think any private entity should be allowed to build on Jackson Park. Courts disagreed repeatedly, and a final ruling in 2018 cleared the way for construction. Moore's observation is pointed: a group that doesn't otherwise engage with questions of racial equity in housing or public space chose specifically and repeatedly to fight the Obama Center. That choice, she says, is very intentional and curious. Myra Kwadja adds that this distinction made the housing advocates' messaging challenge harder — they constantly had to clarify that their critique was 'Yes, Obama Center, no displacement,' not aligned with a white-led group with entirely different and possibly hostile motivations.
More freedom doesn't produce more happiness — it produces more anxiety. Kierkegaard identified this 180 years ago: the more options you have, the more you feel the 'dizziness of freedom,' a paralytic unease at having to choose any single one. The freest generation in history is, by his prediction, exactly the most anxious.
Every person lives in constant tension between infinite possible selves and the finite, limited self they actually are. Tipping too far toward infinite possibility produces a loss of identity; too much confinement in the finite produces stagnation. Kierkegaard argued that this tension is never solved — only managed.
Standing outside a cold pool imagining reasons not to jump is the exact experience of pre-commitment anxiety. Once you jump, the shock passes and you wonder why you ever hesitated. The same mechanism governs every significant commitment in life — the dread is always on the outside, the relief on the inside.
Traditional societies had rites of passage that closed off childhood and opened adulthood. Modern society kept the in-between liminal phase but eliminated the ritual that resolved it. The result is 'emerging adulthood' — a decade or more stuck in the transition — engineered by rising education requirements, women entering the workforce, and delayed marriage.
When Mark Manson proposed to his wife, software he didn't know was running — the low-level assessment of sexual market value and other options — suddenly shut down. Commitment doesn't take freedom away. It trades optionality (freedom to do many things) for focus (freedom from distraction). John Dewey called these positive and negative freedom, and the latter is more powerful.
Mark Manson spent years as a location-independent digital nomad — always a new country, a new woman, a new venture. Then the diminishing returns kicked in: countries started feeling the same, dates felt identical, businesses all frustrated him. The cure wasn't more novelty. It was narrowing: one place, one person, one career.
Every meaningful commitment has a dip — an initial peak of excitement, a brutal trough of difficulty, and a second higher peak for those who push through. Institutions once kept people in the dip long enough to reach the other side. With infinite optionality and no institutions, everyone bails at the bottom and restarts the cycle of shallow first peaks.
Stage one — the aesthetic — is the default: chasing sensation, novelty, and keeping every door open. Stage two — the ethical — is learning to choose with eyes wide open, accepting the trade-offs. Stage three — the religious — is when a commitment becomes so total that it no longer feels like a choice. It just feels like who you are.
The ethical stage is rational commitment — you can explain your choices. The religious stage is when your commitment exceeds rational justification. You can't explain why. It just feels like it chose you. Kierkegaard called this the 'virtue of the absurd' — and it's represented not just in faith but in the entrepreneurs, artists, and athletes who can't imagine doing anything else.
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