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A bounty for dead cobras in colonial Delhi accidentally made the snake problem worse — and Shariff argues we've done something eerily similar with work culture. By rewarding effort rather than meaning, we've flooded the world with performative labor.
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Shariff turns the lens on his own lab with a story that lands with uncomfortable precision. Because being a professor let him keep adolescent sleep habits well into his 30s, he sent emails at all hours of the night. A graduate student noticed — and, rather than actually working those hours, used a scheduling app to make his replies appear at 1–2 AM, manufacturing the impression of round-the-clock industriousness. [1] — Azim Shariff "A graduate student used an app to delay his emails to arrive at 1–2 AM, mimicking his professor's insomniac schedule to appear more industr…" 12:34 Shariff had sent entirely the wrong cultural signal, and his student's response was rational within that culture: perform effort rather than produce work. Shariff calls it 'literally bullshit work.' He had to actively rebuild his lab's culture around actual output. He also names the broader cultural phenomenon as 'effort porn' — the tendency to admire visible struggle for its own sake. Even he admits you can't simply learn to resist this bias; it's too deeply ingrained. But you can learn to notice it, and notice when it's making your decisions for you.
A graduate student used an app to schedule emails to appear sent at 1–2 AM to signal he was working all hours, exemplifying performative effort — 'literally bullshit work.'
A graduate student used an app to delay his emails to arrive at 1–2 AM, mimicking his professor's insomniac schedule to appear more industrious. His professor had to actively dismantle his lab's culture of effort performance.
You probably can't unlearn the mental circuit that links effort to morality. But awareness is enough: notice the bias, and you can stop it from running your important decisions on autopilot.
British colonists in Delhi offered a bounty for cobra skins to reduce snake populations, but Indians began breeding cobras to collect the reward — the classic 'cobra effect' of perverse incentives.
Most people confuse things they value instrumentally (because they get them other things) with things they value intrinsically (for their own sake). Greenberg's friend stayed in a miserable relationship for years because she was living by her parents' values, not her own — the values map made the mismatch instantly visible.
Jungian analyst James Hollis distills a good life to four things: shut up (have gratitude, stop whining), suit up (prepare yourself to fulfill a role), show up (do the actual work in service of others), and daily get out of stimulus-response to ask what your deeper wish actually is. The whole landscape of self-help slots into just these four bins.
Toward the end of their 20s, many men discover that all the strategies that earned them recognition and success have stopped working. It's a second adolescence — more important than the first — where the question shifts from 'how do I play the game?' to 'who do I actually want to become?' Most people going through it look fragile from the outside. They're actually building a foundation.
Boys are told from childhood not to cry, not to feel, not to be weak — but anger gets a pass. The result: a generation of men who reroute every emotion, including sadness and fear, through the only acceptable channel. Emotional avoidance isn't toughness, it's misdirected sensitivity.
Men need a 'bank account' of masculine status — muscle, money, success — before society grants them permission to express vulnerability. Chris Bumstead can cry at the Olympia and get celebrated. A struggling nobody doing the same thing gets contempt. This creates a tragic paradox where the men who most need emotional support get the least of it.
Emotional sensitivity isn't a defect — it's a high-resolution scanner for human experience. Highly sensitive people pick up body language, tone, and unspoken tension that others miss entirely. In the right environment, that's not a liability. It's a superpower.
Her supervisor told her she was too emotional for the pediatric ICU. So she asked herself: 'What area of medicine can I cry in?' That question led her to psychiatry. Finding the environment that holds your emotional sensitivity isn't retreat — it's strategy.
For someone with RSD, ghosting isn't ambiguity — it's a self-verdict. Their brain doesn't read 'this relationship ended,' it reads 'I am the reason this failed.' No closure means the brain fills the gap with evidence of personal insufficiency, and it keeps filling indefinitely.
More freedom doesn't produce more happiness — it produces more anxiety. Kierkegaard identified this 180 years ago: the more options you have, the more you feel the 'dizziness of freedom,' a paralytic unease at having to choose any single one. The freest generation in history is, by his prediction, exactly the most anxious.
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