Dr. Shefali: Protecting Your Kids in the Algorithm Age

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The Digital Hijacking of Attention and Attachment

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When Dr. Shefali first wrote Conscious Parenting 16 years ago, she was worried about parental distraction. Now, she warns, the stakes are categorically higher: technology is no longer just competing for attention — it is supplanting the attachment bond itself. People are forming relationships with ChatGPT bots and AI agents; robots will soon live in the home. In this context, she delivers her most quotable image of the episode: you wouldn't let your daughter travel the world alone at 8, but the world is already in her algorithm at 8. The void left by a distracted or emotionally unavailable parent is filled not by innocent boredom but by strangers shaping a child's psyche. Lewis connects this to his own experience as a new father of twin girls, and Dr. Shefali underscores that today's parent must be 'otherworldly' in their presence to have any chance.