Quote · On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Jill Biden: The Hardest Moments No One Saw (The Untold Story of the White House Years)
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Lessons in Independence
At 9:03 · chapter starts 8:03
Jay Shetty raises an eyebrow at the five rejections — and Jill's explanation reveals something profound about her character. It wasn't wavering love, it was the weight of responsibility. Beau and Hunter had already lost their birth mother in a tragic car accident; she could not risk them losing another mother through divorce. [1] — Dr. Jill Biden "I had to be 100% sure that this marriage was going to work because they had already lost one mother through a car accident, through death, …" 09:03 So she held out, saying 'not yet, not yet' through five proposals, until Joe returned from a Senate trip to Africa, knocked on her apartment door, and refused to come inside until she gave him an answer. She said yes. The moral of the story, she notes with a quiet satisfaction, is that the marriage has now lasted 49 years — which suggests her caution was exactly right.
Jill Biden turned down Joe Biden's marriage proposal five times before finally saying yes when he gave her an ultimatum after returning from a Senate trip to Africa.
Jill Biden turned Joe Biden's marriage proposal down five times — not because she didn't love him, but because Beau and Hunter had already lost their birth mother and she refused to risk them losing another through divorce. She finally said yes only after Joe returned from Africa and gave her an ultimatum at her apartment door.
The Bidens have been married for 49 years, built on mutual support, shared family dinners, and each respecting the other's career choices.
